Tuesday, November 5, 2013

Halloween

Halloween is not high on my list of holidays. In the midst of crazy falls it always seems to sneak up on me and makes me feel even more crazed. Well, this year Chris took the lead and I have to say I like it a lot more that way! Chris took the boys shopping for costumes and handled the trick or treating duties. We both slacked on getting pumpkins, but no one complained too much. Jake finally decided to be a skeleton. Brenden wanted to be the soccer player Leo Messi, but couldn't find his jersey so settled on being Ronaldinho with and afro wig. And Rylan was, of course, a princess. If you're wondering about Miles, well I don't dress up babies. Kids get costumes in my house when they are big enough to ask for a costume :)

Due to some weather concerns trick or treating got delayed in Anderson by a day. Even though the kids were a bummed they had to wait another day for candy, it ended up working out great. The weather was perfect and we ALL had a great night.

Chris took Jake, Brenden, and Rylan to Leo's house (one of Jake's best friends) for a neighborhood parade for the kids to show off their costumes and the parents could get pictures. They then proceeded out in Eagle's Watch for about 2 hours. I met up with them about half way through with Miles in tow after I got back from coaching. Once the boys had gotten enough candy, we all headed back to Leo's where all of the neighbors gathered in the cul-de-sac for adult beverages, candy gorging, and some music. I was only able to stay until about 9p when Rylan and Miles had had enough, but Chris and the older boys stayed until 11pm and we all had a great time.









You be the Judge

So a week or so ago I put up Brenden's 3rd grade school picture and got quite a few comments about how much he looks like me. So I got to looking through some old photos and had an "Oh My God" moment when I came across this picture of me:



So what do you think? Does he look like me? :)  - we even have the same haircut, thanks again for that Mom!

Has it really been 2 months????

2 months since my last post......where has the time gone????? Between school starting, soccer, coaching, work, traveling, etc, etc, etc, my fall is nearly over! It's been a wild and crazy fall. I'm not sure I would say I always handled the challenges the best, but somehow I managed to make it through and  in as close to one piece as was possible.

Let's go one at a time for a recap.

Jake - This fall Jake moved into 3rd grade at Wilson. He is getting a taste of what school is going to become as he continues on. After a couple of weeks of telling me he didn't have any homework he came home one day with a D on a test he took. He found out really fast that studying for tests and the information they are covering in class IS his homework. Since this incident he has been coming home with steady A's and giving me much less grief about studying his flash cards and study guides.

Jake has continued to show a love of reading. He has slowed down on the Harry Potter series, he is still on the 5th book and has started the Percy Jackson series. The series has 5 books and he is on book 4. He reads almost every night and is usually bummed out if we don't let him read before bed each night, but he's learning to get his bedtime routine taken care of quickly so he can read for at least 15 minutes, definitely takes after his dad with his love of books!

This fall also brought select soccer and playing for Cincinnati United. The season had quite a few ups and downs and Jake is learning that it takes dedication in order to be the best. They practiced twice a week and had games nearly every Sunday. Most of the boys on Jake's team had played Select before so he had some catching up to do. He has been praised by his coaches at practices and there has been a very visible improvement in his playing skills. My offensively minded boy has become quite the good defender and his ball handling/dribbling skills blow me away at times. He has worked hard to become one of the best players on his team. They ended their season with a victory despite a very difficult season and he's hoping to play futsal this winter to continue to work on his ball handling skills. And in the spring he will continue with the same team.

Brenden - This fall brought 1st grade and one more year with Mrs. Yeatts. We were all very excited when we found out that Brenden's kindergarten teacher would be moving to 1st grade and Brenden would have her for one more year. Brenden continues to excel with her encouragement and has become quite the reader and seems to be really enjoying math as he has mastered his addition basics and is doing great on subtraction now.

Brenden played on his same soccer team this fall. The Cheetahs had another fantastic season winning nearly all of their games. Brenden continues to be a defensive minded kid, but when he gets a break away he is almost always sure to score. He got the MVP Dribbler award for his team even though all of the players thought for sure he would be the defensive MVP, apparently there was quite the uproar at their pizza party when another kid was named best defender :)

Earlier in the fall Brenden, out of no where, proclaimed he wanted to play tennis. Well, I work at a tennis facility so it was easy enough to get him signed up. He had his first lesson tonight and seemed to enjoy it. The lessons last 10 weeks so we'll have to see how it goes before we sign him up for the next session. I'm excited that he wants to try something new and something that he doesn't have to compete with Jake, it'll be interesting to see how he does without that constant competition with his big brother.

Rylan - It was finally time for Rylan to give school a try! We started her at the Village Preschool. She seems to enjoy it despite her initial pleadings that she start Kindergarten and ride the bus with the boys :) The Village is strictly preschool, it does not do childcare like a lot of preschools. She goes M-W for 2 1/2 hours in the afternoon. We carpool with our neighbors which she loves, quite frankly she gets a little mad some days when I tell her that I am taking her and Avery since she would rather have Stephanie drive her :) She has been doing well, but she did pull some Rylan stubbornness in the beginning by refusing to do her projects. However, once she got daddy to ask her to do her projects she seems to have come around. She's been talking about the friends she plays with and singing some of her songs to us from school at home. I think it has all been very good for her....and for me!

Miles - My little Smiley Miley Man isn't so little anymore! At his 9 month appointment he was nearly 22 lbs! He was around the 75th percentile for height and weight, my biggest kid. He is a silly boy and thinks he's hysterical as he loves to laugh at just about anything. He's still cruising around, but no walking without holding onto to anything yet. Today I did see him twice take a step without holding onto to anything, but it was only to grab onto the next thing. I'm hoping he'll start walking soon because he is seriously heavy! Its no surprise how big he's getting when you see him eat. He can eat as much as the other kids and seems to want food nonstop. I would say 9 times out of 10 if he's grumpy about something its because he's hungry. He's officially done with baby food and loving just about anything I give him.

Chris - Chris has been quite busy with work as the fall is usually a busy time with the change of seasons and sales meetings. Despite his busy schedule, I think this has been the most he has been home in the month of October for a few years. Generally I can count on him being gone nearly every week in October. And although he did have to travel a lot, he only had to be gone one week and we even got him home on his birthday this year. One of the perks of moving here has been less overnight trips which has been great for all of us. And if he hadn't been here as much as he was I don't know how many games and practices Jake and Brenden would have had to have missed or not had a parent there to watch. He continues to amaze me with all he does for our family and what a great dad he is to our kids.

Me - I'm a crazy mess. This fall I took over operations of the diving team I have been coaching by starting my own LLC so I now own the team. This was something I thought I would do eventually and it has been quite the process. I have a lot of respect for those that own their own business, there is a lot more to it than I had realized. We got everything finalized last week when I was able to open a business checking account and receiving my final LLC paperwork. Its still a little unreal to me.

I have obviously been coaching, but I also went to Tucson in September to get my FINA judging certification. It was a very interesting process and I'm not sure how much I will use the certification, but I figured if nothing else it makes me a better judge which can only help my coaching. For those of you that don't know, FINA is our international governing body and having the certification makes me eligible to judge international competitions as well as other National and Collegiate competitions in the states.

Along with my coaching and running kids around to practices, school, and games I have managed to continue my workout regimen in an attempt to regain my pre-pregnancy body. After nearly 9 months of workouts, I am currently 132 lbs and fitting into all of my clothes - YAY! I continue to run and take fitness classes and have also added Yoga to my weekly routine. I ran my longest straight run of 5 miles a few weeks ago and I find myself feeling like I'm slacking off if my run/walk workouts are less than 5 miles total. I definitely feel like I'm getting super close to my final goal and I'm doing my best not to focus on my weight, but rather how I look and feel. I'm also contemplating training for a half marathon since I seem to be doing alright at this whole running thing, we'll see how I feel after the holiday and birthday craze that's about to start :)

So that's about it, at least that's all I can manage for now. Sorry its been so long, hopefully I'll be able to get a routine going again to keep all of my fans informed on our crazy lives! :)

And here are some pics from our crazy fall, I seemed to have done a much better job of taking pictures of the little ones, Sorry Jake and Bren!













Saturday, August 31, 2013

An apology

This an apology on behalf of all moms. I know I shouldn't speak for all of us, but I also know that we are all thinking/feeling the same thing. I've heard it a million times and felt it far more.

I apologize for snapping at you. I apologize for not having enough time for you. I apologize for being tired. I apologize for not noticing. I apologize for not getting it done. I apologize for not helping you. I apologize for not knowing the answer. I apologize for forgetting. I apologize for not anticipating it. I apologize for not being there.

I apologize for not being able to do it all.

I know that my friends/kids/husband/co-workers/family/everyone knows this, but I apologize just the same. I can't do it all. And when I am up all hours of the night with a sick baby and I snap at you the next day, I hope you hear I'm sorry and not what is actually coming out of my mouth. And when I zone out when you're trying to tell me how your day was, I hope you hear I'm sorry instead of can you tell me again. And when I say I'm too tired to play, I hope you hear I'm sorry. And when I just can't anymore, I hope you hear I'm sorry.

Because every time, I truly am.

Being a mom/wife/friend/daughter/coach/employee can be the most rewarding and most exhausting job. I love all of you and I want time for all of you, but sometimes I don't know how to do it. I want to do it and I'm trying to figure out how to do it, but I'm still learning and I'm far from perfect so it usually doesn't work.

So I say I'm sorry and I love you. I hope that can be good enough because that is all I have to offer until I do figure out how to do it all.


Monday, August 19, 2013

Rylan is 3!




Or as Rylan says "I'm not 2 any more." Over the past year she has told me that she is 6 and 7. And when she asked me how old she was one day, my answer of 2 was met with "Still?!" So she has been looking forward to not being 2 anymore for about the entire year :)

Rylan's birthday fell on our final day of vacation that consisted mainly of being stuck in the car driving for nearly 8 hours. Since we knew this would be the case, we decided to celebrate a day early with cake and presents on Lake Michigan. It was just our family and my mom, but I think she had a blast. Her birthday celebration consisted of purple cupcakes, our traditional cake, playing on the beach, a family dinner, and presents that included Sofia the 1st toys, a purple jump rope, and a calculator - just exactly what she wanted!

Rylan continues to be my most challenging kid, but one thing I know from my daily struggles with her is that I will never have to worry about her. She is a strong willed and determined child that will not let anyone push her around. She will fight tooth and nail to get just what she wants, when she wants it. But no matter how frustrated she can make me, she can make me laugh and smile even more :) She is as goofy as she is stubborn which makes life quite interesting. It has been an exciting 3 years since she joined our family and over the next year I look forward to watching her start preschool and learn how to be a big sister as Miles gets bigger and starts to challenge her as she challenged Jake and Brenden!






Weekly Weigh In: Week 26......at least I think it is....

So I started this journey about 6 months ago where my goal was to lose 24 pounds in 24 weeks. Well, I didn't reach my goal, but I do think I was very successful.

I'm at about 135lbs (I do fluctuate a few pounds, but 135 seems to be the average) which is a total loss of roughly 17lbs. Even though I still have 5-10 lbs to lose until I will be satisfied with my weight, I am VERY satisfied with my fitness level. Regardless of what I weigh now and what I have weighed over these past 8+ years of having kids, I KNOW I am in the best shape I have been in since being an actual athlete. I haven't worked out in 3 weeks and still managed to get on the treadmill today and knock out 7+ miles AND felt great at the end. I was also able to run up this sand dune 4 times and 2 of those times carrying Rylan and I wasn't sore the next day. And finally, you can see my six pack abs again. I still may have some love handles, jiggly butt, and some extra on the thighs that I want gone, but I have no complaints about my stomach! I had six pack abs all growing up and now after 4 kids to see them again I KNOW I'm doing something right :)

So I may not be the weight I want, but I can run and jump and play which means I can run and jump and play with my kids! And I'm teaching them the importance of being able to run and jump and play at any age which is a much better outcome from this journey than I could have expected!






Thursday, July 11, 2013

6 months old!

  

My baby is 6 months! And not much of a baby anymore, at least by size. We got official confirmation yesterday that Miles is by far our biggest baby. He had his 6 month check up yesterday and weighed in just over 19 lbs. No wonder my arms are in such good shape!! My other kids have NEVER been over about the 40th percentile for their weight and then Miles comes in at nearly the 90th percentile. Now he's not my longest, Brenden still holds that title. Miles measured at 27 inches (80th percentile) and when Brenden was a baby he consistently was 90-95 percentile for height. And Miles actually has the smallest head, it measured at the 70th percentile yesterday, and the other three all had giant melons well over 90th percentile. Miles is the first, because of all of his weight, to be proportionate though, so he's got that going for him :)

Enough about stats and percentiles though, Miles is my sweet boy. He's (obviously) a good eater. He's still enjoying his bouncer, we literally can leave him in it for two hours and he'll bounce and bounce and bounce..... He crawled for the first time yesterday on all fours while at his doctors appointment - big show off :) He is capable of sleeping through the night, but growth spurts and teething have him quite uncomfortable at night :( And he wants to reach and grab for EVERYTHING. And just like every other baby, he has an unexpectedly loooong reach, the other kids are finding that out now :) 

We just love this kid, but we're hoping he won't eat us out of house and home for a little while longer :)